Wednesday, March 4, 2009

YAY Beakie!!!

So glad things went well!! I told you they would! Did she tell you how long before the baby is "officially" yours?

5 comments:

Donna said...

All right what in the heck is going on???? I need details!!
Just because I suck at posting does not mean I dont read everthing you all post!
All right Becca Lou, fill me in on the home visit.
Oh and thanks for the "M" day wishes all. Oh and Mindy, little Saige could have been born on my "M" day if you remember correctly. Yep you refused to keep her in your tummy any longer...even if it was just a pitiful 24 hrs! (Holly would have never let you live it down if it was her!) Ok so I might not either! jk!
Love you all, now spill it Becca!

Hodgie said...

lol! No I wouldn't have ever let that one go! I would've told mindy to cross her legs and count to 2,400,000 . :-)
Yes M day is coming up. Happy M Birthday to you early! Things were pretty tough up here. They seemed to have made my review score really low this year. Only they added in my "coworkers" opinions.. I just asked my coworkers if they have something bad to say to me to say it to my face. I would appreciate that more than anything. The two that were here said they only wrote good comments. In fact Danny said I was the only one he's ever written comments on and they were all positve. I hate this place! :-(

LSullivan said...

Hodgie, that totally sucks. I am so sorry. Donna HAPPY M DAY ON SUNDAY! Becky had an odd day yesterday and the lady said some pretty unbelievable and invasive things. Her and Dale just kept positive and then today the same lady came for the home visit and just gushed about how much she admired Becky and Dale and she couldn't have been more positive about things. All looks really good. Becky said that in Idaho that as soon as the court date is up (following the birth mom & Dad appearing before a judge and relinquishing their rights), little Aaron will be theirs. There is no 6 month waiting period in Idaho. Howdie Donna. Long time no talk. I will have to give you a call soon. Hodgie, I am so sorry your job is so suckish lately. I love you guys!
Laurie

Anonymous said...

Ya Donny what Laurie said :) Before you can adopt a baby the state like you to have a home study done they interview you and your husband together then have interviews alone. They ask about your whole life why you dropped out of school, went bankrupt what meds are you on anything that stands out they beat to death then the home study they come over to see how clean your home is and if it meats their safety measures then write a report for the court. The lady was acting like I should be open to having Savannah co parent my baby... let savannah be part of everything it was quite disturbing! I acted like what a wonderful and beautiful idea that was LOL she is not the boss of me and she has nothing to do with what is legally binding in this so I acted like I was so excited to co parent with Savannah. Today she told me in the personal interview that she just loved Dale and I and thinks we are honest and open and she could see the love in our eyes with Savannah she loved the way I was with Aaron and thinks that after everything I have been through with Josh that Dale and I are wonderful kind people that are going to bless this baby's life and Savannah's life. YAY! It could not have went better if Heavenly Father was here himself directing the whole thing!!! And I will not co parent with Savannah, this is my baby and my family Savannah's family needs to take care of Savannah. Love you girls and love you my little M birthday girl Donny May!

Anonymous said...

Oh and to answer Hodgie the lawyer said the petition for adoption is filed and it should take 5 to 10 days to get Mikey to sign away his rights and Savannah to sign intent to sign away rights in front of a judge then it should take 5 to 10 days to go in front of a judge then the judge can finalize the adoption or she could ask for even more information :( Hopefully it will go through with ease that is what I need all your prayers for! Clearly this baby is meant to be mine it is just as if Heavenly Father himself has been here guiding us all through this it just should never have went this perfect!

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