Tuesday, November 18, 2008
What a surprise....
James just sent me 13 of the most vile text messages...telling me how I would pay for what I've done. What a psycho. I'm with Becky on thinking he's too lazy to do anything. I sent him a text message saying, "You contact me again, and I will contact your PO and tell your sister that you're harassing me on her phone. " He sent about 7 more text messages...the last one telling me how he loved me so much and it was driving him crazy.
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Hang in the Hodgie! He tries to go back and forth psycho then sweet back and forth to keep you off kilter. Any reaction from you is better to him than no reaction. I hope you are not seeing that same dope from work either. It is time to find a new pool of guys :) Love you Hodgie and you are worth so much more than what you have been getting!
I agree with Beck, there has got to be a good guy out there somewhere. Ignore James, he's a scary psycho, and I agree with Beck, he's just trying to get responses from you so ignore him. Love you Hodge, call me if you need to talk since Becky is officially out of the circle of trust. (JK beck)
Yeah. I told on him to his sister. Said he was sending threatening text messages again. She sends me a text message back saying, "If he sends ONE more mean or out of line message, let me know. His service will be turned off right then and there". :-) Then she told him. So I get a message back from him, "Great, out of all the things, the one thing I told you not to do is tell my family. I can't believe I ever even thought of marrying you"
Yeah, whatever! I'm so over him. Thanks girls for your support!
Oh Holly you have gone and ruined everything what a deal breaker!!! How could you bluck! What a lame o! He expects to have absolutely no consequences for his actions. Wait till Charlie throws him in jail! I bet he would threaten Charlie too what a mess he is.
Just can't believe my "picker" was that far off.
you just wanted to believe in him. you looked the other way and hoped for the best. Clearly this guy has so many problems. I am so glad he lives so far away. I am worried about the threats. Keep the messages in case you need to get a restraining order or something. I am so proud of you for being strong. I think Becky hit the nail on the head saying that he is totally blind sided whenever he has to face a concequence for his bad behavior. He will be totally shocked if Charly presses charges against him. Holly, don't underestimate what he is capable of. If he shows up at your house get out and go someplace public, or call the cops. He has done some pretty shocking self destructive things and if he feels like he has nothing to lose (prison or hurting you in someway)Just promise me you will not ever be alone with him or in a situation where he could hurt you. I underestimated someone once when I was dating and got raped. I love you and just want to protect you.
love
Laurie
The thing that Becky and I both know about james is that he's too lazy to put the effort into this. I think he's more like a yapping dog....yaps until he get someone to listen to him...then backs off. Laur, thanks for being so sweet. I'll have to tell you about this guy and "uncle" sometime. I had a bad experience like you had...that I kept putting back on myself for putting myself in that situation. etc. Anyway... Beck, yeah...I go out with work guy for lunch who's "leaving his girlfriend" left and right whenever I talk to him...yet he still lives with her. Oh and asks me to lunch today. Makes plans for the place to go, then says he doesn't have any money. I offer to pay.... then he's texting me tonight telling me how he's going out for some drinks. How do I meet such losers? I guess Natalie said, you keep fishing for the same thing, you're going to get the same result. I just need to pick a different class of guys. Else I'm going to be alone forever known as the weenie dog lady! Love you all
Hodge
Holly Darlene I am a classic example of how things can change overnight with relationships I was alone my whole adult life. And you are a great weenie mommy! I do think you need to value yourself more you are so beautiful and so funny you deserve the best. Look for people that treat you like the beauty you are if there is something off about them do not second guess yourself and keep giving them chances... move along and find someone that deserves you! Thank Heavenly Father for helping you dodge this bullet you would have come out of this with the very least a divorce if not way worse with his temper. Ask Heavenly Father to help you find the one. Love you Hodgie!
Becky that was written just the way I feel too! I love you Hodgie, you deserve the best!
You two are so sweet! Thanks for the pep talk Beck. Laur...Mindy...everyone but donna! lol :-) I did a natural curly day today and Becky, you're going to have to pick up the V smokey eye kit by bare essentials. The brush for putting on your make up is actually split into a V. I'll have to send you a picture. turned out really cute! Mindy, I still think you should get the rockstar eye. It looked so cute on you!! Love you guys! :-)
Hodge
I have seen the V brush before looked kinda strange and was not quite sure it would work! I guess it does huh!
If you come to meet me for lunch, you'll see the v brush. Why don't you drive it over to Mom's so she can see it, then meet me.
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