Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Talked with Connie last night

She also said she wasn't sure what James would do. He could be violent. She doesn't think he has the money to come up here and do anything though. (usually she's his "sympathy" money giver") He called me last night and asked what I was doing. I said getting my costume ready. So he says, great, I'll be there Friday night at 6. I said huh? I didn't get a flight confirmation, but ok. (I was doing the reverse psychology that I do on mom if I have a boyfriend in town...she'll want to come spend the night at my house to make sure there's no monkey business...I say sure thing, then she backs off.) Yeah so he asked me last night if there was any chance we could get back together. I told him he scared me, and no one has ever talked to me like that...and then got off the phone. Connie said on the phone.. "I think he selected someone with kind of a low self esteem...and a little heavy set because he thought you would take anything you could get"... :-( I just really dislike that family.

13 comments:

Mindy Bush said...

How RUDE!!! I don't like em either. I think you should stop answering their phone calls. Have fun this weekend! Wish I could go trick or treating with you, your so brave.

Mindy Bush said...

(hee hee)

Hodgie said...

Very funny you! Yeah, I'm going to wear a bag on my face so they don't know how old I am. Or tell them I'm going in "proxy" of my child Petie. :-)

And yes, James actually has me spooked. I asked dad to borrow a g to the un. But he said no! lol He wants me to go to his house with the puppies to make sure we're safe. I'm going to delay that visit until I figure out if James is escalating or not. I hope he just goes into a depression and can't function. Cross your fingers!

Mindy Bush said...

This is crazy, I bet you would've never imagined your life would be in such a crazy circumstance. I'm really worried about you. Maybe you should take dad up on his offer. Keep us updated O.K.? I'll keep you in my prayers. Sorry for joking around when it's something so serious.

Mindy Bush said...

The fact that his own "James is so great" sister thinks he could be violent scares me even more. Pray about this one O.K. Holly? Pray you'll be able to break this thing off with the minimal amount of anger on his part. I'll pray for you too.

Hodgie said...

I know... thanks Mindy!! I love you! ;-)

Hodgie said...

No problem with the joking Mindy. You know I love a good joke. I've just gotta figure out what will bother him more. If I answer the phone, or if I don't. I have NO intention of getting back together with him, and if I sense he will come down, I'll call his PO and tell them that he's leaving the state. He's not supposed to do that. What a great idea. It just came to me!

Mindy Bush said...

That's a GREAT idea!!!

Mindy Bush said...

I feel a little bit better now.

Hodgie said...

How you doing today Mindgey? I hope things are going well for you and your family. Still waiting on that picture of Aiden with the mean pinch face on! lol

Do you have all the kids costumes and what they're going to be?

Mindy Bush said...

Things kinda suck right now. I am so exhausted, I've been waking up around 6:30 every morning this week to read scriptures with the kids and haven't made it in bed before 12:00. I was at Wal-mart last night at midnight buying face paint for the boys costumes I forgot to buy.

Brig and Dallen were skeletons, Saige is a fairy, Alora a princess, Aiden is Dumbo, Sarah is a witch. I haven't taken any photos.

There are several other big drags that happened today and last night, too personal to write, but I just feel super down today.

Anonymous said...

Wow Hodgie you need to tell Connie buh bye forever. I can not believe you have people talking to you this way. I love you Darlene! Hang in there, we all love you so much pretty girl. Sorry things arent going to well Mindy Ruth! I sure do love you too! You both are in my prayers!

Mindy Bush said...

Buh Bye

TTYN

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